26+ What To Say When Grandfather Passed Away. We are trying to comprehend your grief but know that is not possible. Use words that are clear and direct. Ralph, i was so very sorry to hear about your grandfather's passing. My grandfather, on his deathbed, sold me this watch" Dear john & linda, we are still in shock over your loss of your grandfather. At least she lived a long life, many people die young poetry in memory of a grandpa who has died can help express loss. Be calm and caring when you tell your child that someone has died. I'll be praying for your family and i wish you my deepest. We considered your grandfather like family and thought so highly of him. 36+ what to say when grandfather passed away.